Fear is the biggest obstacle to those looking for a better life. It literally stops people in their tracks, no matter how bad they want something.
And for most, they can never leave their fears behind.
Look, we all have fears. Some more than others.
That means all of the successful people you can think of right now… including Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Warren Buffett, Lady Gaga and President Barack Obama… overcame fears to get where they did.
The BIG lesson here for you to think about is… having fears does not affect how successful you can be.
And they don’t stop you from getting what you want.
The fact is, you are the only one who stops you from getting what you want out of life.
Which is what happened to everyone who wanted a better life, but never made it a reality.
Some people think you can’t always get what you want.
But that’s just not true.
Here are 4 reasons why you CAN get what you want… and why you absolutely CANNOT give up on living the life you want to live:
The fact is, you CAN overcome:
-Lack of confidence
-Thinking you CAN’T
-Giving up before you start
When you get totally clear about what you really want… then let your passion drive you into action.
If you’ve tried once and think you failed, you DID NOT fail! So you Took Your Shot, and it didn’t work out. Nothing works out on the first try. Heck, even great baseball players hit the ball only 1/3 of the time!
The lessons you learned from your first try will make your second try much better. And as you move forward, you will develop Mental Toughness – aka Thick Skin. Which is essential for achieving anything in life.
If you’ve tried different things, and nothing has worked for you, change your approach! Some say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing time and time again, but expecting different results. Are you guilty of this?
Just keep moving forward, while looking at what others have done to do what you want to do. Also look at what others have tried that didn’t work – and do the OPPOSITE.
Take A Look In the Mirror! – More than not, when you think your troubles are caused by things out of your control… They are really caused by something you are doing, or something you are NOT doing.
To get what you really want out of life, be willing to do what others are not willing to do. Go with your gut when unsure of your next move. And if you stay in the game long enough… you’ll WIN!
Understand that those who get what they want, and live the life they want to live – have gone through the same things you have! They just refused to quit. They learned from mistakes, and approached things differently. Don’t quit until you’re living the life you want to live!
If you take this blog post to heart, you’ll be in a much better position to move forward.
And start down the road to going from where you are now…
To where you want to be.
Living life on your terms, not someone else’s.
Living the life YOU want to live.
I’m really interested in what you think about this blog post I’ve shared with you.
And the experiences you’ve had related to our conversation today.
Write down your biggest takeaways from this post. And revisit them over the next few days. What do these realities… and these suggestions… make you think about? How do they make you feel?
Leave your comments below. And I’ll do my best to post a reply.
Until next time…
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